Choose Wisely

Philippians 1:3-4 I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy."

On the second episode of, "Walking In Her Faith.", we discuss being able to lean on friends in this season. As we are walking in our faith, we know there can be plenty of challenges actively evangelizing in our homes. Sometimes we have friends that we trust with so many things that we naturally feel like our marriage is an open topic as well, and sadly that's not always the case. With that being said we need to understand WHO AND WHAT TO SHARE WHAT TO?

Understanding What to Share with Friends

Deciding what to share with friends can be a nuanced process. Here are some guidelines to help you determine what to tell whom:

1. Assess the Nature of Your Relationship

• Close Friends: Share personal thoughts and feelings, as they are likely to be supportive.

• Acquaintances: Stick to lighter topics and general updates.

2. Consider the Context

• Private Issues: Only share with those you trust deeply.

• Public Events: Feel free to share with a wider circle.

3. Evaluate Their Reactions

• Supportive Friends: If they have been understanding in the past, they may be good to confide in.

• Judgmental Friends: Avoid sharing sensitive information with those who may not be supportive.

4. Think About Their Interests

• Shared Interests: Friends who share your interests may appreciate hearing about related experiences.

• Diverse Interests: Be mindful of sharing too much about topics they may not relate to.

5. Respect Boundaries

• Your Boundaries: Only share what you are comfortable with.

• Their Boundaries: Be aware of what they may not want to discuss.

Conclusion

Being selective about what you share with friends can strengthen relationships and ensure that conversations remain meaningful and supportive. Always trust your instincts when it comes to confiding in others.